How to be a good writer

How to be a good writer

Becoming a good writer is a choice. Many people think that be a good writer is a natural gift, so sometimes they feel that why they have to learn about writing. Even though they learn much about writing, they will not able to be a good writer. It is the worst thought. This opinion make someone ovoid writing and will never be a good writer. Becoming a good writer is a skill that can be learned and everyone can do it, but of course need to take much time and practice.

Read a lot is the main way to be a good writer. The more knowledge that you get from your reading will help you to get some inspiration and wishes to write well. Sometimes when we are writing we get difficulty of what we want to write or how to begin or end a paragraph, but with reading a lot we will accustom to find many kind of paragraphs and it can be our inspiration to write.

Regular writing practice will make you a better writer. You can sharpen your writing skill by practice writing everyday. If you do it regularly, you will get your confidence in writing. Try to write from a very little thing that you can do like writing diary. You can write everything in your diary. Maybe when you sad, happy, falling in love or tell about what is interesting thing or experience that you get everyday. Even though there will no one who read your writing, but you can feel how nice writing is. If you have accustomed to write a diary you may want to continue it with writing a short story, article and so on because you have begin to love writing.

Always to be sensitive with everything happen around you. It can be your inspiration to write. Sometimes many people can’t write because they don’t have any topics or inspirations that can make them write. So besides reading, knowing the condition around us will very help us to write.

Share your writing with other people so that you can get your feedback. It is one of the best ways for you to hone you writing skill. Ask someone to read your writing and give them chance to criticize, give opinion or correction of your writing.

            Don’t be shy or hesitate to show everyone your writing product. Let them know and enjoy that. Don’t worry if you make some mistakes in your writing because if you make mistakes you will learn from it and try to be better.

If you have got your confident in writing, you can start to publish your writing product. You can try from small media publisher such as in the wall of your room, in a wall magazine or in the internet. From this small media you will come to the next bigger media such as publish your writing to the magazine, newspaper until to a book publisher. Even though that is not as easy as invert our palm of hand, but we have to try.

In my last words I say, never think that writing is a gift that can not be learned. Becoming a good writer is the result of much learns, practice and hard work. This fact should encourage you. It means everyone can be a good writer.

 

 

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I Want My Girl Back!

@Zaky

Hallo Mr…

My girl and I have been in a relationship since two years ago. When I had proposed her i assured that I would definitely understand her without she has to ask.
But the reality, I am not able to understand her at all.
And now I have a real terrible problem and it’s very difficult to be explained,I often have a quarrelI with her.i have tried to ask  for forgiveness I fell on her knees and begged her to forgive me… But she want me to go far away from her life. She is very angry with me.
I know that’s really hurt her a lot, even more I can imagine. She feel than I’m very guilty and she cannot accept me, as her boyfriend. It seems like nothing is left in our relationship.
I love her madly and want her back. Even she loves me very much but that guilt feeling is making her avoid me.. she said if I want she back,, She really wants me to do something by which we can get back our relationship.
Please help me out. Please tell me what to do.

@Mr.Solver

Always be calm even if the situation is difficult. Being calm enable you to see the problem from different side. You respond to it using your mind, not your emotions.
It is always good to resolve any problem patiently, than to start it with a quarrel. Love has no meaning if there is (quarrel) between two lovers every time.
Your girlfriend was very clear from the start. She wanted clear vision of understanding to live happy with you. If you began the quarrel every time, than it may be too much for hear your misunderstanding.
When you made it the last time and fell on your knees begging for forgiveness, you became very small in her vision and she felt sin because she made you small.
Girls in that culture want their men to be strong and they become proud of them because they are strong. That does not necessarily mean to be aggressive or to force her. However, strong characters are preferred in such relations.
Do not feel guilty, though. Now there is a reason here for you to start all over again. Ask her for a meeting to say goodbye if things are not OK between you both. This will alert her that you may disappear from her life and make her feel sorry, because she took the matter that way.
Choose a suitable time and a place that reminds her of good times with you. When she goes there, she will feel better and begins to realize that, you have a new look and feel about what had happened.

@Fanesa

      I have a problem and need your solution. I love a man and found that my friend loves him too... But I know that  the man loves me very much and so do me. But my friend don’t know about that. The man always show his care to my friend, but I know he just want to know more about me from her. And sometime I also want to know more about that man from my friend but I never say that I love him, I said to my friend that I just want to know he is a kind person for her or not. But know I’am very confuse the man have said love to me, But I don’t want make my friend sad if I accept his love, Give me a solution please….??

@Mr.Solver

    

     I also ever had the same problem with you when I was in High School, and I also confused in that time. I think the solution is you must prefer your friendship than your love story whatever it will make you hurt, but for the first time you must tell to your best friend that you and her friend loving the same person. And discuss about it, better if both of you stay away from that man or both of you say to that man that you want not your friendship broken so that man will understand you. Because friendship is number, one we can live without boyfriend but we can’t live without friend.

     But if that man force you to accept his love and you accept that and it make your best friend hurt. I can call you a traitor that make your best friend hurt and angry with you.

If you want to share and need a solution for your problem, just send a message and your problem to 08565556665

     

Traditional food "Getuk Lindri"

Getuk Lindri is one of Indonesian traditional foods and actually it is one of traditional foods that i like the most. When i went to MTD, I foud this food and I remember my mom because if i at home, my mom used to by me Getuk lindri when she went to traditional market.

Getuk lindri is one of traditional food of indonesia which is almost rarely found . Expecially in a big city. We can find it maybe only in tradition markets or in rural area. Not many people sell this kind of food maybe they think that all of modern people righ now more like modern foods which are made from cheese, chocolate,  and so on. But actully Getuk lindri is much more delicious. The form is also not less beautiful that many modern foods in this modern era.

But i believe most of Indonesian people like this food. Righ? Because i like this food so that i must able to make it not just eat it.

The ingredients to make getuk lindri

1.      Cassava (1 kg)

2.      Sugar (250 gram)

3.      Vanili (half spoon)

4.      Coconut (Do’t forget to use the young coconut because it more delicious)

·         Grated coconut

·         Milk coconut (a cup)

5.      Salt

6.      Food dye

How to cook?

1.      Prepare the cassava. Take the peel of the cassava and wash it until the colour is pure white without any soil remain. Then cut into small peaces.

2.      Steam the casava until it tender or soft

3.      Take the fiber of the casava. The fiber is located in the middle of casava.

4.      Then mash the casava when it is still hot because it will make you easy. If the casava has already cold, we will difficult to mash it because it will became harder to mash.

5.      The next step grate the coconut. Put some of it in a plate and make some of it as milk coconut.

6.      Boil the milk coconat in a pan, put the sugar and vanili in it until the sugar melt

7.      Take the mashed casava and mix it with the mixture of milk coconut, sugar and vanili which have already cooked before.

8.      Give it little food dye. The colour is up to us. If you like green, we can pot green colour and if we like red you can put the red colour.

9.      Mix it again until all of indegrients are well mixed.

10.  The next step. Take the casava battar in a Getuk griding mechine. And after it out with form like noodle, We can cut it into small pieces around 5 or 6 cm for each or you can make it larger. Whatever depends on what you like

11.  And the last step is put the grated coconut on the pieces and the Getuk is already to be served.

My diary

Why should I facing this? why should I falling in this way? i need love just like everyone in this world get. i need my right to live happily. I am here in this world, but why I am nothing In huma's eyes.
My God is my friend, my God is the only one i can hope more. I don't want to create tears in my eyes anymore because i want to smile.
I need my parent's smile.
i hope my God (Allah) is always hearing and helping me to my happiness by doing succesfully life in the world and in the hereafter...

    

wearing hijab is beautiful

Moment terindah di kos Mina......
2 tahun menjalani kehidupan yang serba sederhana, mencoba menggayuh mimpi dengan jalan yang berliku dan tidak selalu mudah tp I believe in the end it will be so much better. I will get them...(my dreams)

Chyntia Miracle

In a small village there was a woman who was uttering in a small hospital named The Women Hospital. The doctor was very worried because the condition of that woman was very bad and the doctor afraid that she and his child would be dead. The doctor tried to do his best. He called the mainstay doctors of that hospital. They worked very hard to rescue the women and her child, but their effort didn't success. The doctors assumed that the child died, but not with his mother.

            Suddenly the mother shock when she got up and she saw many doctors with sad face in front of her.

"Why you are looked so sad? Where is my child? Is my child girl or boy? If she is girl, she must be beautiful like me, but if he is boy, he must be handsome like his father".. The mother said with her most beautiful smile because she was very happy that he would have a new baby.

"I am so sorry. If I could make a life, I would make it for your child, but I couldn’t. Your child could not life in this world and I hope you must be patient".. One of the doctors said

"Don't say that my child died..! I don't believe you. You are liar. I want to see my child. Give it to me right now".. The mother angry with the doctors

"Ok, I will let you to see your child" said the doctor

After the mother saw her child, he felt that her life was no meaning anymore. Her body fell down on the floor and her tear couldn’t stop.

"I don’t have anything in this world. I have only you my child, but now you have gone. You leave me alone. Your father prefers another woman and also my parents chased me away. I don’t know who will give me spirit to life”. He said and gave up with his condition and some minutes after, the mother run out from the hospital. She was very stress.

Then one of the doctors came and brought a child.

“Mom, there is a big miracle; your child is still life. This is your child. She is very beautiful like you, her mother” the doctor gave good news to the mother that her child still life

“Who are you? Don’t be to close to me...! you have killed my child and I don’t want you to kill me too.”

“I don’t want to kill you. I only want to give your child to you” the doctor answer and try to convince the mother

“My child has gone and it’s because of you. You must want to kill this child also. I know that” hahahahaha… She laughed as hard as possible

            The doctor presumed that the mother was crazy. Then He brought the child back to the hospital and gave her an intensive care. After that He looked for the mother and brought her to the RUMAH SAKIT JIWA. The doctor also has a permission to adopt that child.

            “I will give you named “Cintya miracle” because you are able to life again because of a miracle. God send you to this world to accompany your mother, but now your mother doesn’t know that you are her child that she thing you have gone. She is very love and need you, but she is getting crazy now and couldn’t take care of you. I hope your mother will be heal and can see you again” The doctor gave a name to the child and He tried to tell everything to the child.

            The doctor very loved the child and the child became a big motivator in his life. When the child was 13 years old, there are some differences among Cintya and her other friends. Cintya was very beautiful, clever, and obedient. Cintya also had a strong feeling. Whenever there was something bad happen to his father, Cintya knew that.

            At that time there was a thief who wanted to steal in the Doctor’s house. Then Cintya felt that there was something wrong in that house.

“Dad, don’t go anywhere today. You have to stay at home with me” cintya asked her father and crying

“But why should I stay at home? I have to do my job in hospital. Don’t worried there is your mother that always accompanies you and you have to go to school. Ok” His father said

“No…  I want you stay here, Dad. There will be someone wicked come to our house” Cintya crying

Then the doctor decided to stay at home. Cyntya called some police for keeping his house. When the night came, what cintya worried happened. There were some thieves who came to his house, but it was no matter because the police had catch that thieves.

The excess that Cintya had able to make his father wants not lose her, but He had to be honest to tell the truth that he is not his true father.

When Cintya was 20 years old, his father brought her to her mother in a RSJ.and Cintya was very shock.

“I know this person. She is very familiar with me. Who is her, Dad?” Cyntya asked

“Cintya, I had to tell you the truth. You are not my child. I adopted you from this person. You are a miracle baby. You could life because of your mother.” The doctor tried to tell everything about her and her mother

“You are my mother. I can feel that. I’ am so sorry, Mom. I never know that you are my Mom. This Doctor helped me to stay alive only to see you and now I can see you again.” Cyntya said

“Are you my child? You still life? I need you beside me….” Her mother began to remember everything and could feel that Cintya is her child even thought she was still in crazy condition

After that the doctor felt that Cintya would leave him alone. He run to a big tree in front of the RSJ. He sat down and crying. Than Cyntya came. “Dad, what are you doing here? I know you don’t want to lose me and I’l never do that.” Cyntya said

“But, know you have known who your parent is. Do you still want to live with me?” The doctor said

“Of course, Dad. I always consider you as my father. I love you so much. I will always love you, but I will not forget my mother. I’ll keep her. May I work for my mother? I don’t want to be a rebellious child.” Cyntya asking questions

“Of course, yes, but you have to study first” He answered

            Cyntya continuing her study in a famous University and graduated with the best mark. Her father was very proud of her and believed Cyntya to be a director in one of his companies.

            Cyntya success in his job and she became a great woman. She was able to buy a house for his mother and made her mother heal from her craziness. In the end of the story Cyntya life happily before after with her mother, but never forget with her step-father.