I Want My Girl Back!
@Zaky
Hallo Mr…
My girl and I have been
in a relationship since two years ago. When I had proposed her i assured that I
would definitely understand her without she has to ask.
But the reality, I am not able to understand her at all.
And now I have a real terrible problem and it’s very difficult to be explained,I often have a quarrelI with her.i have tried to ask for forgiveness I fell on her knees and begged her to forgive me… But she want me to go far away from her life. She is very angry with me.
I know that’s really hurt her a lot, even more I can imagine. She feel than I’m very guilty and she cannot accept me, as her boyfriend. It seems like nothing is left in our relationship.
I love her madly and want her back. Even she loves me very much but that guilt feeling is making her avoid me.. she said if I want she back,, She really wants me to do something by which we can get back our relationship.
Please help me out. Please tell me what to do.
But the reality, I am not able to understand her at all.
And now I have a real terrible problem and it’s very difficult to be explained,I often have a quarrelI with her.i have tried to ask for forgiveness I fell on her knees and begged her to forgive me… But she want me to go far away from her life. She is very angry with me.
I know that’s really hurt her a lot, even more I can imagine. She feel than I’m very guilty and she cannot accept me, as her boyfriend. It seems like nothing is left in our relationship.
I love her madly and want her back. Even she loves me very much but that guilt feeling is making her avoid me.. she said if I want she back,, She really wants me to do something by which we can get back our relationship.
Please help me out. Please tell me what to do.
@Mr.Solver
Always be calm even if
the situation is difficult. Being calm enable you to see the problem from
different side. You respond to it using your mind, not your emotions.
It is always good to resolve any problem patiently, than to start it with a quarrel. Love has no meaning if there is (quarrel) between two lovers every time.
Your girlfriend was very clear from the start. She wanted clear vision of understanding to live happy with you. If you began the quarrel every time, than it may be too much for hear your misunderstanding.
When you made it the last time and fell on your knees begging for forgiveness, you became very small in her vision and she felt sin because she made you small.
Girls in that culture want their men to be strong and they become proud of them because they are strong. That does not necessarily mean to be aggressive or to force her. However, strong characters are preferred in such relations.
Do not feel guilty, though. Now there is a reason here for you to start all over again. Ask her for a meeting to say goodbye if things are not OK between you both. This will alert her that you may disappear from her life and make her feel sorry, because she took the matter that way.
Choose a suitable time and a place that reminds her of good times with you. When she goes there, she will feel better and begins to realize that, you have a new look and feel about what had happened.
It is always good to resolve any problem patiently, than to start it with a quarrel. Love has no meaning if there is (quarrel) between two lovers every time.
Your girlfriend was very clear from the start. She wanted clear vision of understanding to live happy with you. If you began the quarrel every time, than it may be too much for hear your misunderstanding.
When you made it the last time and fell on your knees begging for forgiveness, you became very small in her vision and she felt sin because she made you small.
Girls in that culture want their men to be strong and they become proud of them because they are strong. That does not necessarily mean to be aggressive or to force her. However, strong characters are preferred in such relations.
Do not feel guilty, though. Now there is a reason here for you to start all over again. Ask her for a meeting to say goodbye if things are not OK between you both. This will alert her that you may disappear from her life and make her feel sorry, because she took the matter that way.
Choose a suitable time and a place that reminds her of good times with you. When she goes there, she will feel better and begins to realize that, you have a new look and feel about what had happened.
@Fanesa
I have a problem and need
your solution. I love a man and found that my friend loves him too... But I
know that the man loves me very much and
so do me. But my friend don’t know about that. The man always show his care to
my friend, but I know he just want to know more about me from her. And sometime
I also want to know more about that man from my friend but I never say that I
love him, I said to my friend that I just want to know he is a kind person for
her or not. But know I’am very confuse the man have said love to me, But I
don’t want make my friend sad if I accept his love, Give me a solution
please….??
@Mr.Solver
I also ever had the same
problem with you when I was in High School, and I also confused in that time. I
think the solution is you must prefer your friendship than your love story
whatever it will make you hurt, but for the first time you must tell to your
best friend that you and her friend loving the same person. And discuss about
it, better if both of you stay away from that man or both of you say to that
man that you want not your friendship broken so that man will understand you.
Because friendship is number, one we can live without boyfriend but we can’t
live without friend.
But if that man force you to
accept his love and you accept that and it make your best friend hurt. I can
call you a traitor that make your best friend hurt and angry with you.
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