Jumat, 30 Maret 2012

How to be a good writer


How to be a good writer
Becoming a good writer is a choice. Many people think that be a good writer is a natural gift, so sometimes they feel that why they have to learn about writing. Even though they learn much about writing, they will not able to be a good writer. It is the worst thought. This opinion make someone ovoid writing and will never be a good writer. Becoming a good writer is a skill that can be learned and everyone can do it, but of course need to take much time and practice.
Read a lot is the main way to be a good writer. The more knowledge that you get from your reading will help you to get some inspiration and wishes to write well. Sometimes when we are writing we get difficulty of what we want to write or how to begin or end a paragraph, but with reading a lot we will accustom to find many kind of paragraphs and it can be our inspiration to write.
Regular writing practice will make you a better writer. You can sharpen your writing skill by practice writing everyday. If you do it regularly, you will get your confidence in writing. Try to write from a very little thing that you can do like writing diary. You can write everything in your diary. Maybe when you sad, happy, falling in love or tell about what is interesting thing or experience that you get everyday. Even though there will no one who read your writing, but you can feel how nice writing is. If you have accustomed to write a diary you may want to continue it with writing a short story, article and so on because you have begin to love writing.
Always to be sensitive with everything happen around you. It can be your inspiration to write. Sometimes many people can’t write because they don’t have any topics or inspirations that can make them write. So besides reading, knowing the condition around us will very help us to write.
Share your writing with other people so that you can get your feedback. It is one of the best ways for you to hone you writing skill. Ask someone to read your writing and give them chance to criticize, give opinion or correction of your writing.
            Don’t be shy or hesitate to show everyone your writing product. Let them know and enjoy that. Don’t worry if you make some mistakes in your writing because if you make mistakes you will learn from it and try to be better.
If you have got your confident in writing, you can start to publish your writing product. You can try from small media publisher such as in the wall of your room, in a wall magazine or in the internet. From this small media you will come to the next bigger media such as publish your writing to the magazine, newspaper until to a book publisher. Even though that is not as easy as invert our palm of hand, but we have to try.
In my last words I say, never think that writing is a gift that can not be learned. Becoming a good writer is the result of much learns, practice and hard work. This fact should encourage you. It means everyone can be a good writer.
 
 

Rabu, 28 Maret 2012

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I Want My Girl Back!
@Zaky

Hallo Mr…
My girl and I have been in a relationship since two years ago. When I had proposed her i assured that I would definitely understand her without she has to ask.
But the reality, I am not able to understand her at all.
And now I have a real terrible problem and it’s very difficult to be explained,I often have a quarrelI with her.i have tried to ask  for forgiveness I fell on her knees and begged her to forgive me… But she want me to go far away from her life. She is very angry with me.
I know that’s really hurt her a lot, even more I can imagine. She feel than I’m very guilty and she cannot accept me, as her boyfriend. It seems like nothing is left in our relationship.
I love her madly and want her back. Even she loves me very much but that guilt feeling is making her avoid me.. she said if I want she back,, She really wants me to do something by which we can get back our relationship.
Please help me out. Please tell me what to do.

@Mr.Solver
Always be calm even if the situation is difficult. Being calm enable you to see the problem from different side. You respond to it using your mind, not your emotions.
It is always good to resolve any problem patiently, than to start it with a quarrel. Love has no meaning if there is (quarrel) between two lovers every time.
Your girlfriend was very clear from the start. She wanted clear vision of understanding to live happy with you. If you began the quarrel every time, than it may be too much for hear your misunderstanding.
When you made it the last time and fell on your knees begging for forgiveness, you became very small in her vision and she felt sin because she made you small.
Girls in that culture want their men to be strong and they become proud of them because they are strong. That does not necessarily mean to be aggressive or to force her. However, strong characters are preferred in such relations.
Do not feel guilty, though. Now there is a reason here for you to start all over again. Ask her for a meeting to say goodbye if things are not OK between you both. This will alert her that you may disappear from her life and make her feel sorry, because she took the matter that way.
Choose a suitable time and a place that reminds her of good times with you. When she goes there, she will feel better and begins to realize that, you have a new look and feel about what had happened.

@Fanesa

      I have a problem and need your solution. I love a man and found that my friend loves him too... But I know that  the man loves me very much and so do me. But my friend don’t know about that. The man always show his care to my friend, but I know he just want to know more about me from her. And sometime I also want to know more about that man from my friend but I never say that I love him, I said to my friend that I just want to know he is a kind person for her or not. But know I’am very confuse the man have said love to me, But I don’t want make my friend sad if I accept his love, Give me a solution please….??

@Mr.Solver
    
     I also ever had the same problem with you when I was in High School, and I also confused in that time. I think the solution is you must prefer your friendship than your love story whatever it will make you hurt, but for the first time you must tell to your best friend that you and her friend loving the same person. And discuss about it, better if both of you stay away from that man or both of you say to that man that you want not your friendship broken so that man will understand you. Because friendship is number, one we can live without boyfriend but we can’t live without friend.
     But if that man force you to accept his love and you accept that and it make your best friend hurt. I can call you a traitor that make your best friend hurt and angry with you.
If you want to share and need a solution for your problem, just send a message and your problem to 08565556665
     


Traditional food "Getuk Lindri"


Getuk Lindri is one of Indonesian traditional foods and actually it is one of traditional foods that i like the most. When i went to MTD, I foud this food and I remember my mom because if i at home, my mom used to by me Getuk lindri when she went to traditional market.
Getuk lindri is one of traditional food of indonesia which is almost rarely found . Expecially in a big city. We can find it maybe only in tradition markets or in rural area. Not many people sell this kind of food maybe they think that all of modern people righ now more like modern foods which are made from cheese, chocolate,  and so on. But actully Getuk lindri is much more delicious. The form is also not less beautiful that many modern foods in this modern era.
But i believe most of Indonesian people like this food. Righ? Because i like this food so that i must able to make it not just eat it.
The ingredients to make getuk lindri
1.      Cassava (1 kg)
2.      Sugar (250 gram)
3.      Vanili (half spoon)
4.      Coconut (Do’t forget to use the young coconut because it more delicious)
·         Grated coconut
·         Milk coconut (a cup)
5.      Salt
6.      Food dye
How to cook?
1.      Prepare the cassava. Take the peel of the cassava and wash it until the colour is pure white without any soil remain. Then cut into small peaces.
2.      Steam the casava until it tender or soft
3.      Take the fiber of the casava. The fiber is located in the middle of casava.
4.      Then mash the casava when it is still hot because it will make you easy. If the casava has already cold, we will difficult to mash it because it will became harder to mash.
5.      The next step grate the coconut. Put some of it in a plate and make some of it as milk coconut.
6.      Boil the milk coconat in a pan, put the sugar and vanili in it until the sugar melt
7.      Take the mashed casava and mix it with the mixture of milk coconut, sugar and vanili which have already cooked before.
8.      Give it little food dye. The colour is up to us. If you like green, we can pot green colour and if we like red you can put the red colour.
9.      Mix it again until all of indegrients are well mixed.
10.  The next step. Take the casava battar in a Getuk griding mechine. And after it out with form like noodle, We can cut it into small pieces around 5 or 6 cm for each or you can make it larger. Whatever depends on what you like
11.  And the last step is put the grated coconut on the pieces and the Getuk is already to be served.

Sabtu, 17 Maret 2012

My diary

Why should I facing this? why should I falling in this way? i need love just like everyone in this world get. i need my right to live happily. I am here in this world, but why I am nothing In huma's eyes.
My God is my friend, my God is the only one i can hope more. I don't want to create tears in my eyes anymore because i want to smile.
I need my parent's smile.
i hope my God (Allah) is always hearing and helping me to my happiness by doing succesfully life in the world and in the hereafter...

Sabtu, 10 Maret 2012

Moment terindah di kos Mina......
2 tahun menjalani kehidupan yang serba sederhana, mencoba menggayuh mimpi dengan jalan yang berliku dan tidak selalu mudah tp I believe in the end it will be so much better. I will get them...(my dreams)